Fall, the season of Reinvention

Do not allow yourself to be destroyed by the abandonment of others …

They were just designed to be flowers in your life to bud, bloom, and whither

away …

Some people are annuals but you are perennial and deserve nothing less …

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Go outside, ground yourself, and create.

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By default and fault I invest heartily into relationships without a second thought. I believe that in relationships fair exchange is not robbery. If I know what I want from you I need to give it to you as well. How many of us have been blindly robbed?

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As life taught many of us, giving and getting is not always fair exchange. Quality and time is more appreciated in things than people. There are some who just wash over your value, time and needs while sucking up everything you positive you give to them.

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Do not let these behaviors destroy you. They can easily make you want to curl up in a ball and die or make you angry, forever suspect of others, defensive and selfish.

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We must remember the nature of you is not always the nurture in another. In the meantime, go outside, walk barefoot in the grass, touch trees, commune with the moon, sun and stars.

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The universe is not cockeyed, it sees all and corrects all. For the #annuals you have encountered remember the brief beautiful bloom, then let it wither away. Leave more space for #perennials to come in, and fill your #garden #moment by moment, #time after time without question or pause.

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#Dust settles, you shouldn’t. #Fall is the #season of #reinvention

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Soulmuze

Mistress of Reinvention

Nexus of the Multiverse Decendent of Einstein

Est. 0724B.C

FALL in LOVE with YOURSELF

As #seasons #change so do our feelings. We often recognize how lonely we are, unfulfilled desires, the imperfections in our appearances, not being in a financially secure place, loss of loved ones .. it’s so much that drops on us like a ton of bricks, along with a truck full of cement; crushed, weighed down, flattened.

I use the terms “US” and “WE” because “YOU” are not alone with these feelings. I feel all of them and more. Never be fooled by a smile they often hide a lot of pain.

The mask I wear is not of strength but of perseverance; I keep pushing thru hoping I can rise like a #Phoenix from the ashes, that the pieces will not just fall into place but adhere to each other with the glue of permanence.

Guess what, when I think I have it I discover the glue was water soluble and the salt of my tears just washed over remnants of what was and may never be.

#Fall with its chilled air and changing colors is reflective of the changes we need to make to push through, pass and go beyond. It reminds us that possibilities exist for the leaves fall leaving bare trees given time they will bud and bloom again.

Let’s make a commitment to our inner carefree child who believed in magic and spoke positively of “when I grow up.” Let’s fall in love with ourself over and again for that glue is permanent.

Get 2 thought jars label one negative and the other positive. As you feel the negativity weighing you down, write it down, fold it up as small as you can and put in the negative jar. Then write 3 positive words on 3 separate pieces of paper don’t fold it too small and drop those in the positive jar.

This will be your visual representation of Positivity exceeding negativity. On New Years Eve burn every paper in your negative jar. On New Year’s Day read all the positive notes. Start the New Year off with love of self.

I encourage “US” “WE” “YOU” and “I” to romanticize, embrace and love the best of self.

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Soulmuze |

Mistress of Reinvention |

Nexus of the Multiverse |

Decendent of Einstein |

Est. 0724B.C

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Hold on for one more day

#Soulmuze #SuicidePrevention #SoulfulStoryTellersInc #StrongerThanUThink #TalkToAStranger #HoldOnForOneMoreDay #Sunshine #YouCanHelpSaveAnother #YouAreNotAlone #Talk

Until you have reached a point of no return and truly contemplated ‘Do I want to keep on living?’ you will never know the strength required to take your own life. Just like those who make that decision never knew how strong they really were. We will never know how many of them may have realized that they really wanted to live as they were dying.

Do not judge those who committed suicide. Do not chalk it up to ‘they have been dealing with anxiety, depression and/or taking medication for years.’ It’s not cut and dry, emotional pain, depression and heartbreak can’t be fixed with a pill. Recovery is not over night.

Look to the clouds overhead there’s an Angel who’s hoping you heed the words that’s about to be said…

When thoughts of suicide pop into your head remember your worth more alive than dead.

Lifeless body covered with a white sheet

What made you take that final leap?

Were you confused? Abused? Hurt? Afraid?

Was that the only choice you could have made?

We often think to end our life will be the end of the problem

But often times it escalates it to those you left behind.

They carry the burden,the sadness, the pain of your actions.

Death does not always bring closure or satisfaction.

It’s easy to say ‘it will get better one day’

When you’re not the one suffering emotional, physically, mentally

There is not a one word phrase or answer that can give you the strength you need to persevere

When the fight in you is gone its harder to hold on

But should you allow yourself to live for another day you are one step closer to beating the demons that try to take your life way

Hold on just once more and you open the door to life a little more.

Hang in there please stay for you can live to help extend someone else’s life another day.

©️ Soulmuze 2018